Showing posts with label LORI'S ESTATE SALES. Show all posts
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Saturday, September 17, 2011

OUR STORY Part 64: LETTING GO OF STUFF

Well, the estate sale is over and all went amazingly smooth; at least on our end it did; but I'm sure that's because everyone involved was working so diligently behind the scenes while at the same time shielding Mike and me from any unnecessary stress.

Duke and Dixie were delighted to get some stuff out of this estate sale event! =)

Duke would like to thank Uncle Joe & Aunt Lori for his new squeaky toy, "Snakey!" Dixie is also pretty happy with her new bag of raw hide chew sticks. What a treasure and precious new family we have found in Susan, Lori, Joe, Gabby & Jason of  "Lori's Estate Sales." We wouldn't have survived without their compassion and professionalism in the handling of our estate sale. We really do adore them all.

The crew really took the bull by the horns, handling every detail without a hitch; and much to our amazement, were as reliable on the last day as they were on the first day. After three exhausting days they hauled off trash and vacuumed the house leaving it looking as though no one was ever here! Thank you all so very, very much!

Monday afternoon was the first day for the crew to come in and begin their research and pricing of items for the sale which began very early Thursday morning. About 80% of the items, from large furniture to little knick knacks were successfully identified and tagged on the first day.

I didn't think we had that much stuff, but we did. Man, I don't think middle class America realizes just how much our lives center around the acquiring of "stuff." We hang it on our walls; perch it on shelves; decorate our fireplaces with it; carefully organize it in our hutches and entertainment centers; pose it on kitchen counters and guest bathrooms, including the back of the commode. Then there are those treasures scattered throughout our little gardens, back patios and front porches.

During this process I suddenly realized just how much waste has occurred in my life in the acquisition and maintaining of; not just stuff, but brand new stuff purchased at retail. This experience has certainly changed my life forever; and I expect if we ever have a home of sorts again that we will be looking for our "stuff" at an estate sale. Not only is it a wise investment, but it also serves to help those in need.

Well, the estate sale went very well and now someone else has all of our stuff. So many lovely people came through today and stopped to share words of encouragement and support with Mike and me. We are so thankful for their compassion and kindness. If you happen to be one of those individuals, or someone who purchased items from our estate sale; Mike and I would like to sincerely thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

There were some moments of painful tears over the past several days; but not so much about the loss of stuff, but the reality that this was no longer to be our home.

And then there was the unexpected walk-through by the sellers' son that took me back a bit. When I was notified that he was here I felt somewhat violated; having him walking through our home, looking through the very personal pieces of our lives tagged for sale. I headed down the stairs to find him and politely ask him to leave our home. Fortunately, the crew searched the property and informed me that he had driven off at that point.

These past several years have just been so surreal.

In the midst of it all the Holy Spirit reminds me through God's Word that we are never to allow ANYTHING of this world to have such a hold on our hearts that we can't let it go without causing damage to our soul. After all, we can't take any of this stuff with us when we depart from this world. Moreover, we should be of a selfless disposition in our hearts, finding greater pleasure in blessing those who are in true need!

"No man can serve two masters:
for either he will hate the one, and love the other; 
or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. 
Ye cannot serve God and mammon." 
Matthew 6:24

Everything is gone but the sofas and a bed that will go to Good Will. The refrigerator, washer and dryer are gone. We have some things out in the camper fridge and picked up some Woolite tonight so that we can hand-wash laundry in a sink or bathtub until we get some quarters and take a full laundry basket on over to the local laundry mat. 

Monday we will get the bearings packed with grease, a new tire and the state inspection done on the trailer and begin to organize and pack up our little home on wheels. The dogs are still with us; I just couldn't let them go. So, it will be a very snug little family of four surviving in a confined area until such time as God provides a means for us to have a porcelain commode again. =/

The next time you think about going shopping for something I hope you will find yourself an estate sale. Bless a family in need while doing yourself a favor; perhaps finding your treasure at a bargain price. And, you might find a few extra bargains at one of these estate sales that can be donated to a needy family, hospice, church or school.

God bless, Netty

IRONY
 


Wednesday, September 7, 2011

OUR STORY Part 59: LORI & JOE


I just wanted to take a moment to thank Lori & Joe of "Lori's Estate Sales."

Our estate sale is scheduled to be held next week; and since our first meeting with Lori and Joe we felt a tremendous burden lifted from us in the passing the baton of this overwhelming task of trying to figure out how we were going to advertise, organize, research and price our personal belongings for sale. Needless to say, this is a very difficult time for us, and the thought of having to carry on the sensitive task of dealing with individuals on a personal level, and such an emotional issue was beyond our comprehension. Mike's career has been in sales for over 28 years, but it's an entirely different matter when you are selling your personal belongings under such unpleasant circumstances.

During our first meeting with Joe and Lori I had to go "toe to toe" with Mr. Joe over the issue of selling my wedding ring. "No ma'am I can't do that!" "Yes you can." "No ma'am, I won't do it!" was Joe's first response, bless his big Texas heart.

The evening went on with Mike and I feeling a true sense of compassion from both Lori and Joe equally. Since that time we have remained in constant communication regarding the details of sale and new items to be listed; and each time the response has been pleasant, personable and timely.

A perfect example of this precious business relationship is communication we had with Joe today. He contacted us with some potential "great news" about an inquiry he was making on our behalf. I was feeling in the dumps at the time and sent off an email to Joe. 
"Thank you very much for everything. Sorry I wasn’t more upbeat. Feeling a little defeated today."
Joe's response?
"Don't know why!!!!! Loving husband, not on the street, your alive, God loves you, 2 great dogs that love you, sun is shining, IT'S NOT RAINING, in and out burger is now in Texas."
My response . . .
"IN AN OUT IS IN TEXAS?!"
Good ole Joe! Just for that, Mike ended up taking me to In-n-Out Burger for dinner tonight! First burger we have had in about four years.

By the way, Lori and Joe were successful with getting me a very fair price on my wedding ring. And by the way Joe, I know about the stone. ;) What a sweet caring man you are!

My days have been increasingly difficult, and as much as I hate the pity party mood slumps it is a battle that God has been working with me to get through over the past several years. I know that God's grace has been extended to Mike and I both at this time through bringing this very precious couple into our lives to help us through the most difficult stage of our transition.

We love you both dearly. Thank you for everything you're doing and will be doing during the sale next week.

NOT IN A FLOOD ZONE?

GOOD BYE HUMBLE ACRES


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